I don't understand why so many women or men say that they need a boyfriend/girlfriend to make them happy.. Yes, having someone there giving you all their love and attention is great but when it gets to a point that you can't even be happy if you don't have that for a little while, that's a bit much. I have friends and know people that jump to one relationship to another, never single, or miserable if they're not pursuing someone to make them their boyfriend/girlfriend. I just analyze and think are they filling a void, don't like being lonely, just love love, or do they only feel happy with an significant other?..
There is a point when people lose themselves in love and don't think their worthy or can be happy if they don't have someone there. I think it is so important to know what makes YOU happy before you rely on someone else to do that for you. When some people are single their life comes crashing down, it's the worst time of their life, but it's really not. You are able to focus on yourself and just live your life. I'm not saying if love comes your way push it away because hey I'm not saying I don't wanna fall in love because I definitely would, but I'm not going to dread these days because im not in love..
I'm not knocking anyones style but this is just my opinion. If I'm not in a relationship, I'll survive and continue excelling in what I do, and if one day love comes crawling my way, I'll embrace it and continue to stay true to myself and what makes me happy.
I just think people should live their life for them! Enjoy life!
"I'm not waitin' around for a man to save me, don't depend on a guy to validate me . I don't need to be anyone's baby, No I don't need another half to make me whole."
xo-Ashly
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